Smiling on the Outside, Seething on the Inside
There’s a version of you that people seem to like a lot. Easygoing. Calm. Reasonable. You don’t make things awkward. You don’t … Read more
There’s a version of you that people seem to like a lot. Easygoing. Calm. Reasonable. You don’t make things awkward. You don’t … Read more
There’s a moment most people have experienced but rarely admit. You’re in a conversation, maybe a disagreement, and someone raises their voice. … Read more
Most people think keeping the peace is a strength. It looks mature on the surface. You are the one who does not … Read more
Most people believe something comforting about communication. If their intentions are good, the conversation should work out fine. After all, if you … Read more
Most people walk into a negotiation thinking they are stepping into a contest. The goal, in their mind, is simple. Beat the … Read more
You think you enter a room and then you begin communicating. That feels logical. You walk in, you greet people, and then … Read more
Part 1: Why Listening Matters More Than Talking Introduction: The Noise We Live In We live in a world that never shuts … Read more
The self-help angle: “Can I get better?” “What steps do I take?” This crops up constantly in leadership, counseling, interpersonal relationships. Listening … Read more
Most communication doesn’t start with people; it starts with the space they’re in. Long before anyone speaks, the room, the layout, the … Read more
Understanding the Language “The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t being said.” — Peter Drucker Most communication advice starts too … Read more